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Keep Going
Whatever you are going through today - this is your encouragement to keep going. I climbed Mt Kilimanjaro for my 40th birthday. It was a...

Rachel Matthews
Oct 7, 20221 min read


Do you want to fly?
Did you know that the butterfly has to fight to leave it's cocoon? It isn't an easy process. The butterfly has to create a tiny hole that...

Rachel Matthews
Oct 3, 20221 min read


What's Hiding In Your Wardrobe? A counsellor's guide to your mind.
Asking for help is the bravest thing anyone can do. Getting in touch with a counsellor is never a sign of weakness. It is a sign of great...

Rachel Matthews
Sep 30, 20222 min read


Let it Go
As the leaves on the trees fall to the ground it's a really good season to consider the importance of 'letting go'. Thousands of years...

Rachel Matthews
Sep 30, 20221 min read


Is it healthy to be fearful?
Being fearful can sometimes be healthy - think of the necessary care you take crossing the road, or handling a hot pan for example. But...

Rachel Matthews
Sep 25, 20221 min read


Help!
C0unselling is Courageous. Please don't ever think, having counselling means you are weak, it's absolutely the opposite. To ask for...

Rachel Matthews
Sep 21, 20221 min read


If you have a heavy heart today, you aren't alone.
Funerals stir up lots of emotions, memories and deep thoughts about our very own being. Grieve however you need to. Feel the sadness....

Rachel Matthews
Sep 19, 20221 min read


Why do I need boundaries?
A boundary is a limit or space between you and the other person; a clear place where you begin and the other person ends. In order to...

Rachel Matthews
Sep 16, 20221 min read


Why am I so sad?
I'm extremely mindful during this period of mourning for the Queen, the triggers it can create for own grief. It can stir up past...

Rachel Matthews
Sep 10, 20221 min read


Can We Fix It ?
Can we fix it? We can't fix other people that's for sure. We don't have the power to change anyone but ourselves. Can we fix the problems...

Rachel Matthews
Sep 8, 20221 min read


What's wrong with me?
It's ok to struggle. It's ok to find something hard. It's ok to reach out for help. Let's be kinder to ourselves and not let that inner...

Rachel Matthews
Sep 5, 20221 min read


Being a human isn't easy.
It's ok...not to be ok. Nobody is happy 100% of the time. We all have a wealth of emotions that we experience and that's the very essence...

Rachel Matthews
Sep 2, 20221 min read


Do you want to change?
The only thing we have control over in this world is ourselves. We can't change anyone else. But we can change ourselves. And that in...

Rachel Matthews
Aug 31, 20221 min read


You got this !
For many today is GCSE results day. And I know in my own household, that it is bringing up all kinds of emotions, interestingly from...

Rachel Matthews
Aug 25, 20221 min read


Learning to let go
Imagine you have a heavy bag of old clothes. You take them with you everywhere with you. The clothes remind you so much of your past,...

Rachel Matthews
Aug 23, 20221 min read


Two Million Dollars
This really made me smile today. Whilst counselling can't offer you 2 million dollars, it can offer you a safe space to tell your story....

Rachel Matthews
Aug 18, 20221 min read


You can't pour from an empty cup.
It's important for ourselves - and in turn others - that we take some time to rest. To refill. To recharge. To recover To reaccess. You...

Rachel Matthews
Aug 15, 20221 min read


Do you fit in?
I'm not sure I can put this any better than Brene Brown. But I'm learning slowly and surely to fight the urge to always 'fit in'. Imagine...

Rachel Matthews
Jul 25, 20221 min read


Cloudy with a chance of rain
For me our mental health journey is just like a weather forecast. Today the weather is dangerously hot and we're advised to stay inside....

Rachel Matthews
Jul 18, 20221 min read
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